A Short Rant

Let me just begin this with saying that I have a story to tell, but it will surely take a while to get that whole story out.

This goes to a certain guy out there named *George.

Dear George, you are not a player. You have never been a player. You do not have the personality of one. Sorry, but you don't. Confidence is okay, but confidence to the point of being narcissism or egotism, is not. Take a look in the mirror and realize that this just isn't you. I know you too well. You are going to end up hating yourself for the way you've been acting. You're trying to play some game with every girl you encounter, yet you still go home alone because it isn't working out very well for you. Why is this? It isn't you. You aren't this person. Realize who you really are and become that person. He is the guy that I always have enjoyed talking to.

When a man says that he is going to be "assertive", this always ends up meaning that he is going to be a jerk. It ALWAYS happens. I've seen it so many times. Friends who decide that they don't like who they are and they are going to become "assertive". This just ends up meaning that they bite everyone's heads off all the time and they are just mean. They say mean things and end up hurting many people's feelings. I can't stand it when guys tell me that they're going to be assertive. It normally ends up with one of two results. Either A. the guy stays "assertive" and loses a lot of friends, but gains other jerky, assertive friends and is looked down on by people or B. the guy realizes that he is being a jerk and goes back to being himself or some mixture of the two. In my opinion, a mixture is good. You can be assertive and compassionate. It IS okay.


As always, I must end with lyrics from a song:

Let's have some fun, this beat is sick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick
Let's have some fun, this beat is sick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick
Huh! Huh!

I wanna kiss you, but if I do then I might miss you, babe
It's complicated and stupid
Got my ass squeezed by sexy Cupid
Guess he wants to play, wants to play
A lovegame, a lovegame

Hold me and love me
Just wanna touch you for a minute
Maybe three seconds is enough For my heart to quit it
let's have some fun, this beat is sick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick
don't think too much, just bust that stick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick

Let's play a lovegame
Play a lovegame
Do you want love? Or you want fame?
Are you in the game?
Doin' the lovegame  Huh! 

I'm on a mission and it involves some heavy touching, yeah
You've indicated your interest I'm educated in sex, yes
And now I want it bad, want it bad
A lovegame, a lovegame

Hold me and love me
just want touch you for a minute
Maybe three seconds is enough For my heart to quit it
Let's have some fun, this beat is sick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick
Don't think too much, just bust that stick
I wanna take a ride on your disco stick

Let's play a lovegame
Play a lovegame
Do you want love? Or you want fame?
Are you in the game?
Doin' the lovegame  Huh!

I can see you staring there from across the block
with a smile on your mouth and your hand on your huh
The story of us, it always starts the same
with a boy and a girl and a huh and a game
And a game (huh) And a game (huh) And a game (huh)
A lovegame!

Let's play a lovegame
Play a lovegame
Do you want love? Or you want fame?
Are you in the game?
Doin' the lovegame  

*names are changed to protect the not-so-innocent